My culture glorifies having a child. As soon as there is a union of husband and wife, children are expected to be there. Me and my wife don’t have any children. We have been on a mission that deconstructs negative notions of childlessness. I must confess that this has not been without bruises. While weContinue reading “Praying Through Infertility”
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Legacy
“Being without a child has challenged us to ‘live a legacy’ while others strive to leave a legacy to their children” @sikhumbuzo_dube https://www.instagram.com/p/CNWOIj8llNa/?igshid=1r02tpgvusw1c
“Sikhumbuzo Dube, This Year Also My Son”
Failing to get what I expected doesn’t kill. It is giving up on the ideals about life that shortens my lifespan. If I become too obsessed about not having a child, I may miss out on other blessings.
My Name is Not Others: Letting Your Lion Roar
As a childless man, the most disturbing and hurting comment I have received is, “Others are working while you are playing.” This statement not only presupposes that every married man must have a child but casts everyone into one mold. It is bereft of empathy and devoid of sensitivity. In my analysis of this comment,Continue reading “My Name is Not Others: Letting Your Lion Roar”
Storying for Accepting
The journey to acceptance begins by storying your broken narrative. The power of telling your story is that it will produce your intended meaning. One African proverb says, “Until the lion learns how to write, every story will glorify the hunter.” So share your own story, it will empower both you and the recipients. WhenContinue reading “Storying for Accepting”
Happy Mothers Day Message to Three Special Mothers
My life has been shaped by three important mothers. I cherish them so much. I am a by product of their tender loving-kindness. I want to take this time to appreciate them. “A mother’s arms are made of tenderness and children sleep soundly in them” Victor Hugo. Mother 1 MY MOTHER: MY PRAYER WARRIOR NeverContinue reading “Happy Mothers Day Message to Three Special Mothers”
Emotional Release Hacks
Few suggestions: 1. Sharing the emotional burden with those who care is a good starting point. Don’t die in silence. #WeCare 2. Seek out for professional help. Counselling services alleviate emotional pain. 3. Use journaling as a way of releasing pent up emotions. 4. Have an accountability partner that will help you release painful emotions.Continue reading “Emotional Release Hacks”
The Journey Begins
Thanks for joining us! Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton
Shunem Care 